Not many might know, but there is this movie called “3 idiots” which I saw when I was 10 years old. Kinda of 6 years back. The movie was about how today’s education is and the pressure it has on students. I loved that movie not because it was about student’s problems but because it was very funny and amusing. When you are 10 years old and you are watching a movie, all you care about is how much you laughed through the movie. But now, when I came across that movie again, I saw how my world became exactly the way the movie portrayed it. And the movie became more than a movie to me.
Suddenly, I realized just like those many students in that movie, I am running a race where I must be first or I will get trampled. This realization was a nightmare.
I mean, your whole life depends on how you are in these teenage years. Just thinking of this will make us faint. I mean, if how well we will be is decided by these four years of teenage, then how will we feel good, happy and relaxed? People need to understand that we are still learning and we still make mistakes. We, teenagers, go through a lot of emotions more than adults or kids do. Because we are adults as well as kids. We need to act as the kid sometimes and as the adult sometimes. Try being a teenager, then you will know. And now imagine, that your whole life is based on these and only these 4 years of teenage.
People should learn to stop putting pressure on us. I mean, without anybody telling us, we know how much is at stake if we don’t study well. The pressure just gets higher if one keeps mentioning to us about how important it is to study well. We understand.
We do understand that all want only good things to happen to us. But instead of making us yearn for the good things that will come after we study well, some people just keep talking about what would happen if we don’t study well. And some say they don’t care if we don’t score good, but do they really mean it? Are they really okay if we don’t score well?
Education is for us to learn. And our marks are just an indication of how much we know. But today’s world is so screwed up that our marks only decide who we are. Not our behavior, our character, our other skills or our attitude. All of us are suddenly running in this race where getting 95% above is crucial for our survival. If each and every one yearns for this 95% above, then think how much competition this generation has. Education is not the way it used to be. It is different now. We have the same prestige’s colleges we had 50 years, or even 100 years ago, but the number of students are increasing every day and each day a student breaks a record of scoring the highest score. Therefore, these colleges keep raising their bar for their seats. But no new colleges come.
So, people need to understand that we are trying our best in this world. It is not easy. We are still trying to figure the balance for having some fun and at the same time making sure we have a good life for the next 40 years. I mean, it is not like you get to be a teenage all the time. Only these 6 years one gets to be a teenager. So, we are trying to make the most of it.
And we are still struggling. Being a teenager in this world is not an easy job at all. You are literally fighting for your place in this world and it is like trying to find a seat to sit in a train when you don’t even have place to breathe properly. That cramped it is. Putting more pressure on us make it even more difficult to concentrate. I mean, only when we feel relaxed and happy, we can do our best. If we feel so anxious, worried and suffocated all the time, how can we score? Only when we feel good about ourselves, we can do good in everything. And the lifestyle in our world today is more than enough to ensure us when know what happens when we don’t study well.
All I can hope is that the coming generation need not fight for their place in this world like we do. I hope they get the place they deserve to get without any of this struggle and fight.
Lots of love,